Should You Try Pegging? It’s The Latest Strap-On Kink

Pegging is defined as a sexual activity when a male (usually heterosexual) receives anal penetration from his female partner using a strap-on dildo. Some folks would call this anal sex or strap on sex, but its official term is ‘pegging.’

How does pegging work? Well, if you want to try it for the first time, you’d have to start slow and use a generous amount of lube, checking in with your partner occasionally to ask how he feels.

While it may be different physically, it is also an intimate and emotional experience, especially for first-timers. We’ll go into the details, but first, let’s answer your questions.

Do male partners really enjoy this?

While a lot of people are uncomfortable with the idea of a male receiving penetration, the male body actually enjoys anal sex, and having a prostate may have something to do with that. Our buttholes are lined with nerve endings, which is what makes anal sex so enjoyable to people of all sexual orientation.

Is my man gay if he likes pegging?

No, if your man likes pegging, it does not automatically make him gay. Men have their own version of a G-spot too, it’s called the P-spot and it’s located in the prostate. When it’s turned on, your male partner will feel sensations similar to having an orgasm.

How does pegging change the power dynamics in a relationship?

Besides sexual pleasure, both partners can enjoy a roleplay in which the woman becomes the “top” and the man becomes the “bottom.” For most women who are into pegging their partners, they get a feeling of power and adrenaline that’s not normally present during vanilla sex. A submissive man may enjoy this more than he enjoys regular sex.

If you want to try pegging with your partner, remember to use a clean dildo and lots of lube. Afterwards, cuddle with your partner and ask him how he feels about it. Although it’s not part of your anatomy, inserting a part of yourself into someone can be a really emotional experience for them. Always check on your partner, okay?

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