Selena Gomez On Why She Needed To Hate Her First Love

Last week, Selena Gomez released two new ’empowering’ songs – “Lose You to Love Me” and “Look at Her Now”, which we’re thinking is about her ex, Justin Bieber.

Opening up about her first love (no name was mentioned) and how toxic the relationship was, she talked about her feelings on The Zach Sang Show.

Her first love was toxic 

The 27-year old said, “You’re in a phase of life where you experience love for the first time and I think that can just be just a little toxic. You have this codependency that you think is love and then you have this addiction to the passion and the frustration with each other that you think, ‘Oh, that’s love,’ or fighting or doing all this stuff, ‘Oh, that’s love,’ and I believed that for a long time.”

In case you were wondering, yes…She’s “super, super single” 

Commenting for her single status for the past two years, she says, “I’m chillin’ right now, you guys,” adding, “Honestly, (dating) is so stressful so I’ve been having way too much fun being on my own.”

For her future love, she all about looking for the real deal

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Selena who called herself a hopeless romantic dishes that she isn’t afraid to fall in love again. She tells, “I want it to be real and I don’t want it to be codependent or messy or lack of communication.”

She added, “I think you know when you get older, you find people that are actually right for you, that is actually on the same wavelength.”

Honestly, despite what everyone is saying – that she’s throwing shade to Justin Bieber and Hailey Baldwin, the truth is that it’s not that easy to get over someone, especially your first love. We all have our own pace at moving on. Let Selena say her peace #LoseYouToLoveMe