4 Interesting Ways To Get Freaky In Your Sex Life

When you’ve reached a certain level of physical closeness in your relationship, you probably feel like you’ll need to kick your sex life up a notch. How much closer can you both get, physically?

Sometimes, you just want to be wild and fulfil your sexual fantasies, but you don’t want to make your partner uncomfortable or look like a sex noob.

If you want your sex life to be less vanilla and more, say, ‘chocolate,’ here’s how you and your partner can turn up the heat in the bedroom. The wilder, the better, of course. Let’s see how far you’ll hoe go.


1. Experiment with kinks and roleplay

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You’d be surprised at what you could be into. Even if you think you’re not into kinks, experimenting with them can change your whole sexual worldview. Don’t dive straight in like Fifty Shades Of Grey yet. Start small, like spanking and blindfolds, and slowly move on to more exciting kinks, like tying up the more submissive partner and roleplay.


2. Cuddle before and after sex

Cuddling with your partner may sound like a regular thing, but it’s a really intimate moment that releases the ‘love’ hormone that gets you more relaxed and ready to bang. When you cuddle before sex, you could start making out and lead to really heavy petting. When you cuddle after sex, it makes both you and your partner feel loved and safe.


3. Create a bucket list of places you wouldn’t have sex at, but you want to

If you both dare to, have sex at a place that you normally wouldn’t – just make sure it’s clean. Then, try to cross off the places on your sex bucket list, but no pressure. Having sex at a different location can surprisingly spice up your sex life – like at your workplace, in a car or when you’re out camping in a tent. The thrill and risk will give you both an adrenaline rush that will cause more intense orgasms. Sometimes, you’ll have a quickie and other times, mind-blowing sex. Wild.

4. Do your house chores sexily

House chores aren’t sexy but you can make it seductive. For example, prepare a meal for your man (in front of him) wearing an apron and nothing else. Vacuum the living room wearing only lingerie and huskily ask your partner for ‘help,’ because you can’t be the one doing all the ‘work’ right? In fact, if you can, do sexy poses to seduce your partner while you’re at it. It’s fun – plus it gets some amount of actual work done.