5 Fun Personality Quizzes To Take With Your Significant Other

Everyone is obsessed with ‘’how compatible are we?’’ when it comes to finding love. Personality tests, horoscopes and astrology are not only giving people something to learn and believe about themselves, but provide a glimpse of why others act the way they do, too. So kewl right? 

So whether you’re single, looking for love, in a committed relationship, engaged or just straight up curious how compatible you are with your crush, try taking these personality tests to learn more about the ‘’connection’’. 

1. Nanaya 

Developed by literal NASA rocket scientist Rashied Amini—it goes deeper into things like how you approach single life, what romantic relationship types work best for you, and even which locations statistically have the most compatible people for you. If you’re really ready for the truth, it can also tell you whether you should break up or not.

2. The 5 Love Languages

Based on the best-selling book by Gary Chapman. Knowing how you each prefer to receive and express love (instead of assuming everyone wants hugs or surprise gifts) makes things so much better in a relationship. Seriously, this should be asked on every first date to establish right from the start how you should expect to communicate with your partner.

3. 36 Questions On The Way To Love

From the iconic 2015 New York Times essay about a set of questions so vulnerable, yet so approachable, that it could potentially make falling in love happen faster? Regardless of whether you want to make your ‘’booty call’’ or you really want to get to know that guy you met on Bumble, these Qs are a fascinating way to get to know someone that goes above and beyond, “So, what do you like to do for fun?”. Because let’s face it, that question is overrated and annoying. 

4. We Should Try It!

If you’ve had things you’ve wanted to try in bed—even just smaller preferences—this is a great way to talk about them without having a formal sex conversation with your S.O. Each person fills out the in-depth questionnaire and you only see the things you both agreed on. This is a judgement-free zone test. 

5. The XConfession App 

Similar to We Should Try It!, feminist adult-film director Erika Lust’s app is basically Tinder for sexual acts—although it specifically focuses more on kinks and fantasies. And again, you only see what you both swiped right on, which creates a safe place to discuss what you’re both interested in trying.